Scavenger

 If you expect everyone to be kind, humane and loving sincerely just like you, you are in the wrong planet.

Here, when most people find you kind but without boundaries, you will be taught a painful lesson.

Here, there are scavengers everywhere seeking to take from what you have (money, energy, efforts, time and joy) and leave you with nothing to figure your way out not caring how you feel.

It pains me when I see really kind people get hurt at work, in business and relationship as they haven't learnt how to spot manipulation and leave with supreme peace.

Dear Kind people,

1. Learn to have and handle difficult conversations. It doesn't hurt much to have when unsure. 

2. Set boundaries. As a businessman, set your price and what amount you can't go below. Guess what? Funny that people love and trust people who have boundaries. 

3. No is a statement. Say it when you just can't....

4. When you notice you are the only one giving and sacrificing, it's wisdom to chill. You deserve to get too. 

5. Don't give what you don't have for yourself. Why give clothes out when you are putting on rags? 

You know, God has a way of compensating kind people bigly. Stay kind, sweet and with boundaries. 

Sò gbò?

Oluwapelumi Awe