The Weapon of Fear ⚔️

You are most vulnerable when you are in need of Love, Help or when you are Afraid.

Needing Love!

When you are in need of Love, any affection whether genuine or not can trigger you to put your guard down prompting you to get into a relationship that may not represent the kind you want or engage in an act that you might be unhappy of later. 

Needing Help!

A lady who is an orphan but of high values who needs to pay her school fees. 5 hours to the deadline, her friend comes with a proposal that there's a man she knows who can give her the school fees if she can sleep with him. Needing help can make you very vulnerable. 

Being afraid!

The most dangerous state to be.

- Fear that you will lose this year's admission like last year.

- Fear that your business is beginning to crash like the last.

- Fear that your present relationship will end like the last.

- Fear that you may not get a man to marry you since you are to close to 30 or 38 as a lady. 

In the days where men fought to marry women, when the two men stepped out, you will find each fighter doing everything possible to instill fear in the heart of the other fighter before the fight.

You will find a fighter beating his chest hard in the presence of the other fighter. The other fighter can then somersault to show flexibility and strength to scare the other fighter. 

They understand that fear is a powerful weapon. 

If you allow fear, you won't only be unable to attract people and circumstances that can make your life better, you will even lose the ones you have.

Bear in mind that, no matter how old or strong you are , a time must come when you will need to be shown love, need help or you are afraid. 

What Should You Do Then?

You need Love?

Kindly answer these questions -

1. What kind of guy do you like? 

2. Are you sure you see a future with the one coming at this point and offering help? 

3. Is there a someone who truly loves/cares about you and you love him too but you are having issues common to all men that you two can initiate a comeback? 

4. Your spiritual ability to discern will be very much needed. 

5. Pray!

Are you in need of Help?

1. You will have to learn to trust God

2. Reach out for help from those you trust.

3. Appeal to the examination body or organization stating your case and asking for a reduction or extension.

4. Pray!

Are you in Fear?

1. Hold on to what God has said about you. They are all in his book. 

2. Watch your words. Only say what you want to see and appear.

3. Speak to your mentor or spiritual leader.

4. Take the first step.

5. Pray!

Sometimes all you need is a word of affirmation, hug 🫂 and expression of concern (money can come in later).

Be open to receiving any of these from those you have 'discerned and know' care about you. 

I want you to win.😊

Oluwapelumi Awe