Men Rarely Cry PUBLICLY

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Men rarely cry publicly. 馃槩

When you see an able-bodied man burst into tears before his son who is 10years old because how tough life is, he has held back too much in times past, he can't hide his tears anymore.

Please tell me if any or all of these questions have ever crossed your mind:

Q1- How do I know I will even succeed when it doesn't look like it? 

Q2- What's the guarantee that a day will come when everything will eventually pay off?

After all of this routine of waking very early in the morning, reading books, starving one's self to do online courses, setting up a small business, being discipline, being responsible, if a person eventually doesn't overcome scarcity and live comfortably, then life will be rated as unfair. 

When thoughts like this start sneaking into your mind, you will have to shut them up with God's word and also the story of men like you who had worse background with life treating them unfairly but held tightly unto the only thing they had which was their dreams, kept pressing everyday and eventually emerged champions. 

See, let nothing kill your spirit. 

Even if you don't eventually get the success you want, it will be said of you that you never left any stone unturned and that you made impact in the way you could.

Cheers!馃槉

Oluwapelumi Awe

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