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Thoughtfulness As A Skill Today

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Of all the dates you have been on, which one is the most memorable for you? 馃グ The one with Bode shey? 馃槏 Why do you still think about the day as if it happened yesterday and why your other dates haven't been like 'THAT ONE' with Bode?馃榿 I can tell you that it must have been his acts of thoughtfulness which could have been a gesture, a question that he asked, a gift or something in the moment.  One of the skills that I have seen not often spoken about but is responsible for why people get preferred over others is the skill of 'thoughtfulness'.  Thoughtfulness is not a virtue as many have made it seem, it is a skill.  It is the ability to voluntarily take an extra step to further add colour to a project or make someone feel better on your own knowing that even without the extra contribution the result will still be predictable.  It is why people will want to have you by their side, run ideas by you and even include you in the execution.  We as humans love people ...